• Do you have difficulty maintaining mutually committed relationships?

• Do your relationships swing from intensity to distance?

• Do you sometimes feel sapped of energy or obligated to look after your partner?

• Do you objectify your partner by putting them on a pedestal?

• Do you fantasize or obsess over your partner?

• Do you expect to be taken care of?

• Do you find that you can never get close enough or be reassured enough of your partner's commitment to you?

• Do you often need to test the boundaries of your partner's love for you for reassurance that you are not going to be abandoned or rejected?

• Do you sometimes seek sexual engagement to gain closeness?

• Do you mistake sex for intimacy?

If you can identify yourself within the framework of some of these questions, the chances are that you will benefit from exploring the depths and patterns found within Love Addiction and Love Avoidance.

If significant relationships have been an issue for you, you may find some relief by finding out the reasons behind the difficulties you are or have been experiencing.